The Live Out Proud Conference, an initiative by the national non-profit organization Live Out Proud, stands as a monumental step towards addressing the often-overlooked trauma and emotional challenges faced by queer men. In a world where their struggles are frequently marginalized, this event offers a rare and valuable space for healing, understanding, and personal growth. Hosted at the Denver Evans School, a place where historic charm meets modern amenities, the conference is more than just a gathering; it’s a journey towards empowerment.
Live Out Proud’s mission is deeply rooted in the belief that every individual deserves the opportunity to heal and thrive, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. This event underscores their commitment to this belief, specifically focusing on the unique traumas experienced by queer men. From societal stigma to internalized shame, these challenges can often seem insurmountable, leaving deep emotional scars. The conference seeks to address these wounds through shared experiences, expert insights, and a community that understands and supports each other.
By bringing together an all-star lineup of speakers who have diverse paths and specialties, the Live Out Proud Conference offers not just empathy, but also practical strategies for working through trauma and rebuilding a sense of self-worth. Set to be held at the Denver Evans School on May 4th, this event is a wonderful call to action for queer men to come together, acknowledge their shared struggles, and embark on a healing journey that recognizes their worth, resilience, and growth potential.
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Live Out Proud Conference Speakers
Meet the remarkable speakers of the Live Out Proud Conference, each bringing a unique blend of expertise and personal experience. These professionals range from therapists and life coaches to researchers and public speakers, all sharing a commitment to supporting and empowering the GBT community. Through their sessions, they’ll offer practical advice, personal insights, and strategies for self-discovery and growth, helping attendees navigate their identities and life challenges with greater confidence and understanding.
Isaac Archuleta, MA, LPC: Emotional Tattoos and Life-Changing FeedBack
Isaac Archuleta [He/They], a graduate professor, licensed therapist, life coach, and proudly gay, married man, stands as a figure of resilience and empowerment in the queer community. His journey, which began in the complex backdrop of a conservative church pastored by his parents, led him through a maze of challenging questions about sexuality and gender. These early experiences, marked by a scarcity of resources and safe spaces for exploration, have deeply influenced his professional path. Over a decade later, Isaac has emerged as a leader in the field, dedicating his career to filling the voids he once encountered.
Driven by a passion to create a world more understanding and accepting than the one he grew up in, Isaac has significantly expanded his impact. He’s nurtured the iAmClinic [Located in Denver] from a fledgling idea into a team of over 10 therapists, each committed to providing compassionate, judgment-free guidance. His reach doesn’t end there; he further established iAmCouncil, a sister company focusing on life and relationship coaching that extends its services nationwide. These initiatives are more than professional accomplishments; they are manifestations of Isaac’s commitment to fostering safe environments for individuals to discover and embrace their true selves.
In his multifaceted roles as a professor, therapist, and coach, Isaac brings a unique blend of academic insight, therapeutic expertise, and personal experience to the “Live Out Proud” conference. His sessions promise not only to enlighten but to offer practical, real-world strategies for self-discovery and empowerment. As an individual who has navigated the complex intersections of faith, sexuality, and identity, Isaac offers a perspective that is both deeply personal and universally relevant, making his contribution to the conference invaluable.
Jae Windley
Jae Windley’s journey to the Live Out Proud Conference has been shaped by several pivotal experiences, each deepening his commitment to queer wellness and community. His initial step into this realm began with volunteering at the Los Angeles LGBT Center, an eye-opener to the importance of his work, especially in the wake of the 2016 election. Joining the Chicago chapter of Impulse Group further solidified his path, connecting him with others passionate about fostering queer wellness. His most recent transformative experience was at Camp Bravetrails, where he was inspired by the authenticity and self-awareness of queer youth.
In his workshop, “Nurturing the Inner Gay Child,” Jae focuses on reigniting the expressive, spontaneous, and joyful aspects of ourselves that may have been suppressed in adulthood. His presentation is a call to reconnect with the playful and uninhibited parts of our identity, often dimmed down to fit societal norms. Through interactive and reflective methods, Jae guides participants to engage in conversations with their inner gay child, exploring what is needed to bring more fun and authenticity into their adult lives.
Participants will leave with valuable skills: learning how to communicate with their inner gay child, tapping into self-expression, and infusing their lives with more joy and pleasure. Jae’s approach is a blend of presentation and workshop, creating an interactive experience that is both insightful and engaging.
Beyond his professional pursuits, Jae’s interests are diverse, from Star Wars and X-Men to American history and Christmas lights. He values the importance of everyday laughter, regular emotional release, and stands firmly for trans rights and personal wellness, underscoring the multifaceted nature of his approach to wellbeing.
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Dr. Adam Sharples Brooks, PhD
Dr. Adam Sharples Brooks [He/Him], a luminary in the field of Communication and Information Sciences, brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the “Live Out Proud” conference. With a Ph.D. in Communication and Information Sciences, an M.A. in Communication Studies, and a notable background in Public Relations, he is recognized nationally for his expertise in public speaking and communication. Currently serving as the Assistant Director of the Public Speaking Program at The University of Alabama, Dr. Brooks plays a pivotal role in guiding clients to develop compelling messages, enhance their delivery skills, and manage public speaking anxiety.
His career, distinguished by coaching numerous public speakers to national acclaim, is rooted in a profound understanding of diversity and communication, public speaking delivery, popular culture, and mass communication. Dr. Brooks’ talk at the conference extends beyond mere public speaking; it delves into the intricacies of coming out narratives, a topic deeply connected to his dissertation research. He aims to assist gay men in recognizing and dismantling the controlling narratives of the closet that often linger in both professional and personal spheres. His session is designed to empower participants to find and embrace their own voice, forging connections with strategies for ongoing personal and professional evolution.
Beyond academia, Dr. Brooks has cultivated a significant online presence, sharing insights and advice on platforms like TikTok and Instagram. His series “Things I Wish I Knew in My 20s” has garnered over 10 million views, underscoring his ability to resonate with a diverse audience. At the core of his work, whether in the classroom, online, or at conferences, is a commitment to helping people find and refine their voice, enabling them to communicate effectively and authentically in various contexts. His participation in the “Live Out Proud” conference is not just about sharing knowledge; it’s about inspiring transformation through the power of speech and self-expression.
Mike Iamele: Good Boys, Bad Boys, Better Sex
Mike Iamele [He/Him], with a decade of expertise in exploring subconscious behaviors, brings a straightforward and engaging approach to the “Live Out Proud” conference. His workshop, “Good Boys, Bad Boys, Better Sex,” tackles the often sensitive topic of sexual desires and fantasies in the gay and queer community. Mike understands the challenges and taboos surrounding this subject and is dedicated to helping people break through these barriers.
His talk addresses the reality that many of our private sexual fantasies are kept hidden, often wrapped in shame or embarrassment. Mike’s goal is to change this dynamic. He emphasizes the importance of discussing and understanding these desires, especially for those who’ve faced shame around their sexuality. His approach is direct and uses humor to make the conversation more accessible and less intimidating.
The workshop aims to provide participants with practical takeaways. Attendees will learn how to understand the reasons behind their sexual attractions, connect with others over common challenges, and confidently communicate their desires to partners. Mike’s style is less about theory and more about real-world application, ensuring that participants leave with tangible skills and a newfound confidence in their sexual identity.
In essence, Mike’s session at the conference is more than just a discussion—it’s a step toward greater sexual empowerment and openness for those in the queer community.
Eli Honeycut: Embracing Your Queer SuperPower
Eli Honeycut’s [He/Him] workshop, “Embracing Your Queer Superpower,” invites attendees at the “Live Out Proud” conference to delve into the depths of their unique experiences and perspectives as queer individuals. Eli, with an innate understanding of the complexities and nuances of queer lives, encourages participants to reflect on the skills and strengths they’ve unconsciously honed over time. His presentation isn’t just a talk; it’s an interactive exploration of self-discovery.
Eli’s approach is centered on the concept that many queer people develop hidden superpowers as a result of living outside societal norms. These powers, often forged in the crucible of challenging experiences, are unique strengths that can be leveraged in all aspects of life. His workshop prompts participants to ask themselves: How have these abilities shaped my life? Do I fully recognize their impact? By engaging in this introspective journey, Eli aims to help participants understand and embrace these facets of their identity to build a more authentic life.
Participants in Eli’s session will walk away with three key takeaways. First, they’ll gain insight into how their unique life perspectives were formed. Second, they’ll uncover and appreciate the inherent power in their queer identity. And finally, they’ll learn practical ways to apply these insights in their daily lives. Eli’s session is an opportunity for attendees to recognize and celebrate their individuality, turning what might have been seen as challenges into powerful tools for personal growth and authenticity.
Addressing Unique Challenges Faced by Queer Men
The Live Out Proud Conference, set in the welcoming halls of Denver Evans School on May 4th, is more than just an event; it’s a crucial intervention in the lives of queer men. This section highlights the significance of addressing the unique challenges faced by this community, emphasizing the need for such focused events.
In a world where the issues and experiences of queer men often go unrecognized or are misunderstood, the conference provides a much-needed platform for discussion, learning, community and growth. It serves as a reminder that while strides have been made in terms of broader LGBTQ+ rights and acceptance, specific challenges faced by queer men still require targeted attention and support. These include dealing with internalized homophobia, navigating complex relationship dynamics, and confronting societal expectations.
The conference aims to foster a sense of community and belonging, offering a space where queer men can connect with others who share similar experiences. This community aspect is vital in combating feelings of isolation and in providing mutual support. The event’s focus on personal growth, trauma healing, and empowerment is not just about individual development; it’s about strengthening the community as a whole.
Live Out Proud serves as an important educational resource for those within and outside the queer community. It’s an opportunity for allies and others to gain a deeper understanding of the specific challenges queer men face, leading to greater empathy and more effective support. By highlighting the importance of such events, this section calls for continued efforts to provide dedicated spaces for the unique needs of queer men, fostering a world where everyone can truly live out proud.
A Note From the Founder
We got a chance to talk with Live Out Proud’s Founder Kirk Barnett. When asked why a queer men’s event for LOP’s first-ever event he responded that
‘As a queer man, I didn’t have a lot of resources to help me with what seemed like insurmountable problems. As I started finding solutions in my community, I realized that the community itself was of huge help… Creating a queer men’s event just made sense to me as a queer man, I had the connections, I had the vision. We would like to put on similar events for our other queer siblings in the future. This seemed like the most natural starting place.’
Author: Jeff Wilson
Jeff is one of the owners of GayDenver and one of its writers. He is a Denver transplant who loves the city and the proximity of the mountains. He is happily married to his husband and loves hiking with his furbaby Thayella.